About ME

Who am i?

My name is Ermes. I’m 35, Italian, and right now I’m rebuilding my life in Australia.
This blog is where I document the journey — the discipline, the mistakes, the growth, the truth.

Where i came from

I grew up in Italy living a life that looked fine from the outside — stable job, routine, comfort.
But inside, I felt disconnected, unchallenged, and slowly dying in a life I didn’t choose.
So at 35, I burned it all down and started over on the other side of the world.

What changed?

I hit a point where staying the same hurt more than changing.
So I booked a one-way ticket to Australia with nothing but savings, fear, and a decision:
to become the man I always knew I could be.

My mission

I write because I know what it feels like to be lost at 30+.
To feel behind.
To feel like you wasted years.
To feel like something is missing.
This is my way of turning my story into something useful — a message, a guide, a push.
If my journey can help someone wake up and rise, then it’s worth sharing.

What this blog is about

This blog is where I share everything I learn while rebuilding my body, mind, career, identity, and purpose.
I write about discipline, masculinity, heartbreak, reinvention, and becoming stronger — inside and out.
It’s a raw record of the journey of becoming a better man.